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Oct. 20th, 2007 01:02 pmYou know, if I randomly stumble across your photobucket album and you've uploaded a friend's photo of their own face and named it nasty.jpg, there's just really no positive way to interpret that. Yeah, I'd love to hear an explanation as to why you'd be a backstabber, but really, there's no way it can be explained.
Actually, I take part of that back. The two people aren't currently friends. I thought they were at one time, but there wasn't any drama surrounding an un-friending, so they must've just been friends with 1 degree of separation. Either way, it's very petty and childish.
Anyways, my point is. I thought I knew someone. And I clearly didn't. Which really makes me question a lot of other things.
Incidently, I've removed some of my oldest LJ friends from my list. It took me a long time to do it. A year or more of silence, or random posts. But when it really hit me was that my dad died and people I would've once considered super-important to me...never even knew, still don't know, because I'm not a part of their life anymore. So it was time for ME to cut a cord there. It wasn't that I didn't like them...just that they'd moved on long ago and I am done waiting. I'm personally worth more than updating in someone's "FILL ME IN ON ANYTHING IMPORTANT!" post with "Oh hai, btw, my dad died!"
Actually, I take part of that back. The two people aren't currently friends. I thought they were at one time, but there wasn't any drama surrounding an un-friending, so they must've just been friends with 1 degree of separation. Either way, it's very petty and childish.
Anyways, my point is. I thought I knew someone. And I clearly didn't. Which really makes me question a lot of other things.
Incidently, I've removed some of my oldest LJ friends from my list. It took me a long time to do it. A year or more of silence, or random posts. But when it really hit me was that my dad died and people I would've once considered super-important to me...never even knew, still don't know, because I'm not a part of their life anymore. So it was time for ME to cut a cord there. It wasn't that I didn't like them...just that they'd moved on long ago and I am done waiting. I'm personally worth more than updating in someone's "FILL ME IN ON ANYTHING IMPORTANT!" post with "Oh hai, btw, my dad died!"
