Evil Drives a Minivan

If you're coming to look for dirt, just a reminder, I actually removed people who participate in anon, anonymously, and in mean-spirited ways. Just sayin'. If you were one of those who were dropped over the issue of one of the most flagrant, disgusting displays of RL harassment from LJ anon communities, and you're actually upset I dropped anon-participants over it, well, I ain't got nothing for ya but to remind you why I showed you the door.

I am going to reduce the number of stagnant journals on my FL. I don't like having people who don't actually USE lj regularly on my FL. It bugs me, to be honest. It also bothers me OCD.

If you're taking an LJ-hiatus and come back and see that I've defriended you, drop me a note. Chances are, it isn't that I dislike you, just that I've tidied things up for now.

I stole this from batty_

I forgot my iPod at home in my sweater pocket. I think I'm going to cry. I hate being on the bus without my bubble.

You know, if I randomly stumble across your photobucket album and you've uploaded a friend's photo of their own face and named it nasty.jpg, there's just really no positive way to interpret that. Yeah, I'd love to hear an explanation as to why you'd be a backstabber, but really, there's no way it can be explained.

Actually, I take part of that back. The two people aren't currently friends. I thought they were at one time, but there wasn't any drama surrounding an un-friending, so they must've just been friends with 1 degree of separation. Either way, it's very petty and childish.

Anyways, my point is. I thought I knew someone. And I clearly didn't. Which really makes me question a lot of other things.

Incidently, I've removed some of my oldest LJ friends from my list. It took me a long time to do it. A year or more of silence, or random posts. But when it really hit me was that my dad died and people I would've once considered super-important to me...never even knew, still don't know, because I'm not a part of their life anymore. So it was time for ME to cut a cord there. It wasn't that I didn't like them...just that they'd moved on long ago and I am done waiting. I'm personally worth more than updating in someone's "FILL ME IN ON ANYTHING IMPORTANT!" post with "Oh hai, btw, my dad died!"